I have been surprised over the last few weeks by how many of my clients believe in the saying, “You have to love yourself before you can be loved by another.” Of course I understand what it’s getting at: the idea that it’s easier to love someone who has a sense of self-worth or self-confidence, as opposed to someone who doesn’t think much of themselves. But to assert that you have to love yourself before another person will is, in my opinion, not only incorrect, but also pote